日常生活において、例えばコーヒーをこぼして大切にしていた洋服が汚れてしまった場合、誰しも大きなショックを受けざるを得ないものである。
In everyday life, for example, when you accidentally spill coffee and stain clothes you care about, anyone would find it hard to avoid feeling really shocked.
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Especially, the more memories are attached to the clothing, the greater the sense of loss when you lose it.
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However, when faced with such situations, it is important to change your mindset and approach to problems in a more positive way.
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In other words, by thinking, Next time, Ill buy even nicer clothes, you can free yourself from being attached to what youve lost.
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The reason you feel a strong shock when your clothes get dirty is because you believe that those clothes are one of a kind for you and the most wonderful thing in the world.
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However, in reality, there are many wonderful clothes in this world that you still dont know about.
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Therefore, it is not uncommon to encounter new values when you let go of what you believed was “the best.”
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Therefore, even if you lose something important, it is important to see it as an opportunity to look for something better.
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Even if it’s the only piece of clothing in the world, there may still be other wonderful clothes out there that suit you.
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Not only with clothes, but also when things you once cherished—like your car, shoes, or watch—break or become unusable, thats actually the perfect opportunity to broaden your perspective and look for new options.
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If you can change your way of thinking like that, not only will you be freed from the pain and sadness of loss, but you will also be able to discover new values and possibilities that you hadnt noticed before.
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Instead of lamenting the loss of your favorite things, consider it a new starting point and move forward proactively—this is what will enrich your life.
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